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Akiva Tolchin

MFT, CSAT, CTNC-LC

Relational Trauma Specialist | Couples Therapist & Divorce Mediator | Somatic & Systemic Healing Expert | Certified Transformational Nutrition Coach | Gottman Method & IFS Practitioner

Akiva Tolchin is a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT-LP) and CSAT dedicated to guiding individuals and couples through relational trauma, sexual compulsivity, and intimacy challenges. Akiva combines evidence-based modalities with somatic and systemic frameworks to help clients heal betrayal wounds, transcend codependency, and rebuild trust. A New York State Approved Divorce Mediator, he offers compassionate pathways for couples to repair or part with dignity, blending clinical rigor with holistic wellness insights.

Specializations & Expertise

 

  • Sexual Addiction & Betrayal Trauma: Breaking cycles of compulsion and shame while restoring relational safety.

  • Codependency & Relational Healing: Empowering individuals to establish boundaries and emotional resilience.

  • Couples Therapy & Mediation: Utilizing Gottman Method and Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy (IBCT) to foster communication and mutual understanding.

  • Somatic & Trauma Recovery: Integrating mind-body techniques to resolve deeply rooted psychological wounds.

Therapeutic Approach


Akiva’s integrative methodology includes:

  • Attachment-Based & Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT): Strengthening emotional bonds and repairing attachment ruptures.

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS): Harmonizing internal conflicts to reduce self-sabotage and foster self-compassion.

  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT): Cultivating present-moment awareness to disrupt negative thought patterns.

  • Somatic Therapy: Bridging body and mind to process trauma and unlock paradigm shifts.

 

Sessions prioritize collaboration, offering couples and individuals tools to navigate conflict, grief, or transformation with clarity and grace.

Commitment to Holistic Healing


Akiva’s practice is defined by:
Systemic Couples Work: Leveraging Gottman and IBCT training to help partners reconnect or transition peacefully.
Divorce Mediation Expertise: Guiding couples through Part 146-approved mediation with empathy and fairness.
Wellness Integration: Applying Transformational Nutrition Coaching (CTNC-LC) and performance strategies to align mental, physical, and relational health.

Education & Credentials

  • Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy: Touro University.

  • CSAT: Specialized training in sexual addiction and betrayal trauma.

  • Certified Transformational Nutrition Coach (CTNC-LC): Institute of Transformational Nutrition.

  • Advanced Training: Gottman Method, IBCT, IFS, MBCT, and Somatic Therapy.

 

Why Work With Akiva?


Akiva merges clinical precision with heartfelt empathy, offering a safe space to confront trauma, addiction, or relational gridlock. His unique blend of systemic therapy, somatic practices, andb ensures clients feel empowered—whether rebuilding intimacy or navigating separation. A former performance coach, Akiva equips clients with actionable strategies to reclaim agency and thrive.

Begin Your Journey


Akiva provides:

  • Individual therapy for sexual addiction, codependency, and trauma

  • Couples counseling to repair trust or mediate divorce with respect

  • Somatic and nutrition coaching for holistic wellness integration

  • Trauma recovery through mind-body and evidence-based modalities

Key Highlights: CSAT, MFT, CTNC-LC, Gottman and IBCT-trained therapist, divorce mediator, Touro University graduate, somatic and systematic healing expert.

Interested in Working with Akiva?

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